Sunday, July 20, 2014

Saturday, July 19, 2014: Crabby Girl so it’s Housework Time.

This morning Tommy woke up in a bad mood. She didn't wanted to be petted and just wanted to sit in the middle of the living room by herself.  It was a perfect time for me to catch up on some cleaning. With her watchful eye upon me I was able to wash the kitchen floor, dust everything in the living room, and get catch up with other minor tasks.
The only time she left the living room was when I brought out the vacuum cleaner to clean and rotate cushions on the chairs and sofa. She must be getting used to the vacuum because I noticed that she was watching me from the doorway to the master suite. She stayed there even when I moved the vacuum into the study and didn't venture into the living room until I had unplugged the cleaner and stored it in the closet. She surprises me sometimes with how astute she is.
Around 11:00 after I had completed many of my chores, she finally was in a better mood. She “allowed” me to pet her for quite a while and we also spent some time playing with the ribbons. She still doesn’t care for the laser pointer. She might run after it once or twice, but that’s about it. I had better luck with just the light from the flashlight.
Afternoon meant nap time and while she napped I tried to catch up on transcribing my grandfather’s diary entries from 1936 for my other blog. When she woke up I figured she would just come and find me and either lay on the floor or sit up on the desk. Today was not that kind of day. All she wanted to do was yell at me. I stopped working and gave her the attention that she wanted.
After getting the attention, she abandoned me for the bedroom. I thought that now would be a good time to do my fitness walk. When I returned I learned the error of my ways. The rest of the evening was spent either being “reminded” how if Tommy’s not happy nobody’s happy, making Tommy happy by petting her, or trying to have Tommy ignore my movements so I could work on the computer.
Tommy got very vocal when I laughed, yawned, or moved.  My way to get her to stop was simple, if I could pet her under her jaw and down her neck, she’d stop. I’ve found that that’s her Achilles’s heel; she’ll stop doing anything when you rub that area. Of course nothing else gets accomplished, but isn’t that my primary job, to make her happy?
I don’t know what’s going on tonight, but she is definitely irate about something.  She started running around the condo and yelling whenever I came near. I tried calming her down but it only seemed to make matters worse.  When she hissed at me while I was talking in a calm voice, I knew it was time for Tommy to have some “alone time.” Hopefully she’ll calm down before the fireworks start and she and I are confined to the closet together.
I went back into the bedroom right before the fireworks and it appeared that all was well.  Tommy approached me, but I couldn't tell if it was contrite or stalking stance.   I found out in a second when instead of licking my elbow, she tried biting it. I said “Ouch!” and she backed off.  I was actually glad when the fireworks began.
When the first fireworks went off we headed for our safe/happy place, my walk-in closet. Tommy loves exploring in there and also it also has some of her favorite hiding places. We spent the time in there and she stayed pretty calm with my constant talking drowning out the noise and petting reassuring her that she was safe.
When the fireworks ended we went back into the bedroom.  Tommy got a treat for going to the closet and coming back out. As we lay on the bed, the yelling and biting didn't return. It was all just petting and purring. Even though the day was unsettling, it ended well.

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